How to become a programmer's wife?

To become the wife of a programmer you should try to look at what it takes to make.

Two girls are talking:
- What is he like?
- Very sociable and benevolent ... You
can't even say that he is a programmer!

The thought will be chaotic, without any structure. From personal experience.

For a long time, the idea of ​​writing such a creation ripened in my head, but only that time was not enough, then the work hung on the neck with an unbearable load, then household chores and so on. Why does the title say “How to become a wife ...”? Because becoming JUST a wife is not easy, and connecting your life with a programmer is a very difficult, troublesome business, and not all girls will agree. To a large extent, because until now in the minds of some people, and girls in particular, programmers are strange people, even very strange people. Apparently, such a stereotype was created in the head of many unique people due to the fact that most of the guys-programmers are such eccentric freaks, computer maniacs, that if you marry such a guy, heaps of crumpled wires, all kinds of devices, communication in an incomprehensible language, etc. ... I thought so too. Until a certain point. Our meeting took place quite by accident, we did not even suspect that that day would become fateful for us (too pretentious word, but not to say otherwise). Apparently, it is really difficult to get to know a programmer on purpose. It is easier, for example, to pick up some mid-level manager or bank clerk at a party. So, back to us.Our communication developed very, very rapidly - there was an amazing candy-bouquet period, which, by the way, continues today. He gave me something that you will not find in our provincial town. Of course, there were some oddities. But most of these oddities were on my part. For example, he could forgive me such small pranks as being late for a date for ... an hour! Everything developed somehow quickly, perhaps partly due to the fact that I took the initiative in my own hands (this happens to this day, but before it was without quarrels, and now, when we are already a family, sometimes disagreements arise). And I think that if it were not for that ease in the relationship, that initiative on my part, he would not care and he would continue to sit at home and play his stupid games, and I would sit at home by the window and continue to wait for my prince, which is not. I made my prince.And we got married almost a year after we met.

Now about the main thing. How to be a programmer's wife. I want to dispel the castles in the air for those girls who think that if they have already met such a specimen and even meet and everything will be OK for them - forget it and be prepared for huge changes in your life. If you really want to marry a (promising) programmer, and not just because “they-get-well-paid-and-because-programmers-sit-quietly-at-their-computer”, you will find a lot of interesting things, I would say - exciting. If you still managed to start a family, be prepared for the fact that your life will turn upside down. Your husband may be invited to a high-paying job. To another city. And this is where the fun begins - you need to quit your job, wave your pen to your parents, friends, acquaintances and just good people. You are going in no time,at work, the deadline is no longer the end of the quarter, but the date of your departure, so in order to deliver everything on time, you have to plow and plow. The husband is lured into a new job with all sorts of "tasty treats" - comfortable housing, good wages, quarterly and annual bonuses, corporate outings to the most pretentious places in the city, free language courses, and so on. You can continue indefinitely. You are drooling and you are moving to another city in the hope of a brighter future ... Yes, you live in a luxurious house, but in the suburbs, and without personal transport it is hard for you. And, by the way, the move fell on the winter, and this is frost, blizzards, icy wind in the face, tears and endless doubts. The period of adaptation to everything new - to the city as a whole, and to people in particular - goes on for a very long time. With the advent of auto, life becomes much easieryou even buy housing almost in the city center. It would seem - what else is needed for happiness - a family, an apartment, a good job. But now everything in your husband starts to annoy you - and scattered wires everywhere, and endless talks about games and all kinds of devices, and your husband's time at the computer for too long. And by the way, if you think that your husband, a programmer, will help you in every possible way to solve some problem connected in one way or another with a computer, whether it is registering on a foreign site, or buying a beautiful dress on one of the foreign sites, you are wrong ... He'll just say, "Do it yourself." And this is not because he does not love you, but because you become a little smarter and more advanced. Reconsideration came to me in time. I realized in time that all this needs to be reconciled, and in the end, my husband is the best.He helped me put on my boots when my belly would not even let me bend down, he gives me gorgeous gifts, he fulfills almost all my whims (and sometimes I even feel ashamed of my desires), he went to the other end of the city for the kitchen tiles, while at work there were rubble. He does everything for us so that we live in comfort, he will make the impossible possible. He says that all this is just for me - all this moving, work ... But now, looking at our little bundle of happiness, I can say that everything was not in vain, damn it!so that we live in comfort, he will make the impossible possible. He says that all this is just for me - all this moving, work ... But now, looking at our little bundle of happiness, I can say that everything was not in vain, damn it!so that we live in comfort, he will make the impossible possible. He says that all this is just for me - all this moving, work ... But now, looking at our little bundle of happiness, I can say that everything was not in vain, damn it!

Yes, programmers, of course, are people with their own troubles and cockroaches, they may not be understood, they may not understand you. They are sometimes tedious and specific and boring. But it's incredibly interesting to communicate with them, they know a lot of interesting and informative things. They are capable of crazy actions. They are smarter than bankers and have a better understanding of economics than any economist. They know how to work and make money and know how to do it better than any financier. They know English better than a specialist in a language university. If a programmer really falls in love (otherwise it cannot be, why waste your time on empty relationships?), Do not skimp on warmth and understanding, be mutual - you will receive a return in the form of beautiful courtship and sincere feelings. Be easy to communicate and do not play - they recognize falsity immediately.Get ready for long stories about what C ++ and C # are. Be light-headed and adventurous - your life will never be the same again. However, the consequences of all these adventures will certainly please you!