Where to meet a programmer?

Where to meet a programmer?

Hey! I'm here for advice. I specially registered to ask this question: "Where can I meet a programmer?"

I am a pretty girl, I am friends with sports and with the head. Recently, with the help of Cauchsurfing, I met such cool guys - programmers! No, excuse me, nerdiness, such interesting and developed people that I just caught the fix idea: "I want a programmer - that's it!" ... Poyuzala on the network, Google showed several groups in VK. I will conduct reconnaissance there, of course, but maybe there are options where programmers live, where they gather? I still like live meetings more.

And another question: is it true that you need to strike up conversations with them yourself? Even the "look at close range and smile" is not suitable?)))

I'll try to meet the programmer on this site